conflicts/ childhood/ competitor

so a conflict comes along and normally i try to stay away from conflict as much as possible, but it happens. I definitely talk it out. Although I can be a very loud person, I am very soft spoken when handling conflicts. There's no need to yell.. that doesn't solve anything. I definitely stay open minded and def try to hear out the other person on how they feel and try to picture myself in that persons shoes. I'll let the other person say exactly what's bothering them and eventually something gets worked out. This method definitely works because I am a very good listener and give my honest opinion without judging or criticizing. So my biggest problem in life?? definitely be too nice and open minded.. is that a problem? yeah, i don't have any real problems i face... maybe too many friends? There is also not an issue I can think of that has affected my family. My family and I are all pretty stable and very happy right now. I've learned to be open minded and accepting ever since I was a child. Speaking of being a child, my childhood was amazing. I mean, what's possibly bad about being a kid. You can do whatever you want without getting in trouble. I loved it. I was extremely active and always loved being around people. Sports, mainly gymnastics, took up the majority of my time. Actually, it was my life, not gonna lie. I had a very happy childhood. Being in a competitive sport since I was 5, has a lot to do with how competitive I am now. In my own quiet way, i'm extremely competive. It's a great feeling to win, but I'm def always happy for the other person. Even if i do win, I'm not the type of person to jump for joy and go all out to rub it in the person's face.. that's just obnoxious. Ok, my fingers are tired from typing. I am NOT about to write a paper right now or anything :)

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