i dont get it!!!

the one thing i dont understand is cheating. i see it this way.... if ur in a relationship and ur just going to go off and do something with another person or be with another person then why not just break it off with the person u were originally with. some people say "they cheated on me so im gonna cheat on them" or "i was hurt in the past or im gonna do it to other people". if u kno how it feels y would u want to do it to someone else. it doesnt feel good, does it? no one deserves that kind of pain. i say... if its the sex life the problem instead of cheating sit down and talk about trying new things, experimenting alittle or if one person just isnt enuf sexually then maybe ur companion will let u bring another person in. thats not uncommon these days. its s alot better than cheating. it takes balls to face the problem in the relationship and if u honestly dont think its worth saving them break it off dont hurt the person.. even if they are a total ass or bitch they still dont deserve to have their heart broken. some people use the excuse " i was drunk" WHATEVER!!!! if u kno how u get when u get drunk and if u kno u get vunurable then dont put urself in that situation. ur just asking for it. PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON..... I FEEL UR PAIN.. U DONT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT..... I KNO UVE HEARD THE SAYING " ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER" ITS TRU BECUZ IN RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE PERSON CHEATS FOR THE 1ST TIME, THE OTHER FORGIVES THEM SO THE ONE WHO CHEATED ASSUMES THEY'LL FORGIVE THEM AGAIN. THE SAYING IS TRU. no one deserves that. there are people out there who are faithful and honest. some of those people are right under ur nose. people u wouldnt even give a chance in hell. that person could be the guy or girl of ur dreams. it may not be physically but it will be emotionally and thats all that matters!

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